A PLACE TO BE OURSELVES

A PLACE TO BE OURSELVES

Director: Alex Gabbay

Category: Human Interest / Society / Art & Culture

ProductionU.K. 2026

Language: English, Vietnamese

Subtitles: English

Length: 52 minutes

In A Place to Be Ourselves, director Alex Gabbay follows eight people across Europe and Asia who question that trade-off – testing whether belonging really does mean giving up who you are.

In London, poet Maureen fights a war of narratives through spoken word, insisting society still exists, while social entrepreneur Alicia tests whether a hand-delivered invitation can turn strangers on a street into a community.

In rural Andalusia, former fintech founder Juan leaves a successful career behind to build Rooral, a co-living project where remote workers and village grandmothers discover one another across generations.

In Berlin, Monika’s Oneliness Project reframes loneliness not as personal failure but as something many of us quietly share, while Shasta’s Naked String Quartet strips away perfectionism — and clothing — to find something more raw than technique.

In Sicily, leadership coach Pimmi helps others find her voice by first returning to the silence in her own story.

In Paris, activist Chacaab discovers an unlikely family in Extinction Rebellion’s care team, born from a single act of kindness outside a police station.

And in Hanoi, 22-year-old blind musician An Nhu is called selfish for insisting on her right to self-determination — her answer is that community is built not on conformity, but on respecting individuality, and the pain we all quietly carry. Together, their stories suggest belonging isn’t a passive accident — it’s something we actively create, one relationship at a time.

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Director's Statement:

I've always made films about the way we live together. My previous documentaries Beyond Men and Masculinity (2021, Netflix) and The Price of Fairness (2016, Netflix) searched for answers through social science and experiment. This film began in the same place, but it quickly became something more personal. Filming other people's need to belong stirred up questions I hadn't let myself ask: where do I belong? Am I becoming irrelevant?

I believe a small act, a single conversation, can move the world as much as any recognised hero of social change. This time, instead of beginning with experts, I began with people. As I travelled across Europe and Asia, I expected to document loneliness. Instead, I found people quietly inventing places where others could simply be themselves: a woman inviting strangers to gather on her street; young people spending their evenings talking with lonely strangers in Berlin; musicians finding trust through performance; activists discovering that the strongest part of their movement wasn't protest, but the way they cared for one another. What surprised me wasn't that loneliness exists- we already know that. It was how ordinary the responses were. Again and again, I met people who believed both in the right to be fully themselves and in the need to make room for others. We are all individuals, though not all of us have that freedom equally. The challenge then is rebuilding connection in a society that increasingly rewards self-sufficiency over belonging. I no longer see belonging as something we search for, but something we help create - not through extraordinary people, but through ordinary ones choosing, every day, to make room for someone else. If I've got an answer to my own question, it's a pretty simple one: I need to get out from behind the camera more, and take a closer look at my own life - at the choices I've made. I hope audiences leave asking not only where they belong, but what kind of place they might help create for someone else.

Alex Gabbay

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